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6/10
This movie has one scene that rocks it all
heather_curious6 December 2007
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Interesting movie in that it touches on the every day inevitable, such as family members passing away and bad relationships and/or bad feelings with the people we're supposed to be the closest too. The other person that posted about this movie is right, the characters for the most part are just plain awful. They basically make you just want to kick their butts for being such nasty people. Their nastiness practically ruins the movie, but there is one particular scene in the movie involving Patrika Darbo and Judge Rheinhold in the kitchen that saves this movie and makes it worth watching every now and again. It's the kind of scene that made me laugh so hard I cried. It saved the whole movie and thank goodness, because watching Beau Bridges in tight baby blue polyester made me come close to convulsions.
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5/10
Well paced average comedy
gtrz12 March 2011
I am partly writing this review in response to some of the other reviewers on here that mention how unlikeable some of the characters are in this film. How can it be missed that their neurotic tendencies are supposed to be part of the comedic element??

This film is nothing more than something to watch when you have nothing else to do and are in the mood for a couple of laughs. It has its poignant moments, it is well paced, is well acted by most of the cast. I especially liked Molly McClure as Mama Wheelis. Her role reminded me of a Ma Kettle-type character (for those of you who remember or know who Marjorie Main is).

I thought that this film was much better than a lot of today's comedies...most of which contain the same 'ol predictable bathroom, endowment and sexual orientation jokes and are painfully unfunny.

5 out of 10 stars
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5/10
"Chick flick" masquerading as a comedy ............
merklekranz4 September 2010
A few bright comedic spots cannot overcome the obnoxious characters in "Daddy's Dyin Who's Got the Will?" Beau Bridges almost makes it worthwhile as the self appointed king of his miserable marriage. Beverly D'Angelo is so self important, you will immediately hate her. Judge Reinhold's hippie hair is more interesting than his smarmy character. The back stabbing and relationship shifting might appeal to the "soap opera" crowd, but those expecting a sharp "balck comedy" will be sadly disappointed. Although the movie does a pretty good job of developing a bunch of characters all at once, the end result is very unsatisfying....... - MERK
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Funny... real and deep
atomicmarmalade@hotmail.com10 November 2004
This is probably one of the most honest American culture movies ever written, directed and acted. Anyone who has siblings and grew up with typical sibling rivalries can relate to the both the humor and the heartbreak. The plot provides a nostalgic glimpse into growing up in small town America, and how our placement in the family unit plays a crucial role in how each one of us enters society as adults. For example, I connected with Evalita because I am the youngest girl in a family of four. It is I, whom Daddy spoiled and I am the the only child who left the nest to "suck the marrow" from life... the entertainer. Like myself, Evalita chose the "road less traveled and that made all the difference." She lived, which is why she sings "Find Your Way", a song about the suffering we endure and the joy we feel as we journey through life. I think "Daddy," too, truly lived his life, which is why Evalita is his favorite. Evalita's role in the story is symbolic of the choices we all have, and how our decisions affect who we are. She is a mirror for the other characters, showing not only her family members, but all of us, a part of ourselves. And, last but not least, Beverly D'Angelo plays the Evalita, as she does all her roles, with immaculate finesse. A definite must see for those who have yet to understand the importance of family.
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1/10
Why did I waste my life on this movie?
Queen_oogabooga16 April 2009
This movie is made of fail. The characters are unlikable, under-developed, and annoying as hell. The story is marauding and pointless, and the ending is confusing and just plain bad. I still have yet to figure out if this is supposed to be a comedy or a drama. Everyone in this film is awful and hates there lives, and this movie makes a lame attempt to make it funny. When I received this movie from Netflix I was expecting it to be bad, just look at the title. But, I was expecting something that was bad enough to be funny. This just wasn't. It wasn't good and it wasn't bad enough to be good. Please don't waste two hours of your life on this movie, IT IS NOT WORTH IT!
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8/10
A Fun Movie
austinatmeetup15 March 2013
This movie was fun. There was not a boring moment. The characters and the dialog were credible. It kept my interest the whole time. Before I watched it, I looked it up on this site, but it didn't come up. Later I realized that you can't enter an apostrophe when entering the title. I was able to bring it up when I input it without the apostrophe. I thought the title of this movie was quite appropriate, couldn't have been any better. The acting did not suffer from the flaw of many movies of this type, which is the flaw of overacting. Instead, it was well acted. The characters were interesting. I really think the rating it has so far on this site is way too low.
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10/10
Touching and funny story excellently portrayed.
broxsond9 January 2006
The characters represent a variety of small town stereotypes that many will be quick to recognize. This humorous look at family dysfunction, love, culture and catharsis is touching and often painfully accurate. The movie shows how one family can produce a wide variety of personalities which come into conflict as each grows older and confronts their own life issues. Moreover it demonstrates how difficult it is for each to trust and understand the motives of the others. Rheinhold provides an interesting catalyst as the incarnation of an outward focused stereotype of "big city" loose morals.

It reminds me of so many family get togethers where misconstrued intentions, conflictive personalities and misunderstanding overshadow shared history and love. Though not well known, it is my favorite movie.
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A **** film!!
larrymp24 March 2003
This is one the funniest films I've ever seen. The characters are very believable. I just love the character Mama Wheelis. Beverly D' Angeleo is wonderful as Evelita. I think Patrika Darbo is very cute and funny in this movie. The whole movie is wonderful.
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10/10
Great
wren330-222-30751225 November 2011
I am from the south, and I loved this movie so much I would watch it every day until I memorized it. I would say I loved it as much as Sweet Home Alabama. I can be very picky on badly made movies, or those displaying inappropriate behavior, language or sexual promiscuity. I also dislike any movie with disrespect shown to Godly folks or to the elderly who are compromised due to health reasons. But I enjoyed the way this movie had all the elements of truth in humanity without being so raw that it would cause a Christian to blush in mixed company. I actually felt like I could identify with a lot of the goings-on in the movie because I was born and raised in the south, and I am 62 years old and have encountered these very people with the same attitudes during the same occasions in my own life. Please make more of these true to life historically correct to average folks movies. It doesn't hurt to remember how funny being politically incorrect could be without having to resort to body functions or sounds.
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10/10
Outrageously Funny
Jim_McKendrick11 February 2002
This is, without a doubt, one of the funniest films ever made. BUT, and it's a big one, ONLY if you're from Texas or the South in general. The folks in this movie have got the Southern character down pat. Highly recommended for folks from the South - the rest of you with no sense of humor can go to hell.
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Two Thumbs Up
ElysiaAeris18 October 2003
I remember just turning on the tv one day to see Daddy's Dyin.. on. It reminded me so much of most of the families in the area, they might not see each other for long periods of time, but, when they do see each other it's like nothing has changed. The same fights exist, the same love remains beneath it all.

A truly touching story, it shows a good example of unconditional love within a family.
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10/10
Touching and hits nail on the head..
natwag12 June 2020
I love this movie.. accurate to a T.... I wish there were more movies made about everyday relationships, daily lives of ordinary people/family... Listen up produces, studio heads, there is an audience for this genre..
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9/10
A Warm Comedy That Will Touch Your Heart
Nglas30 November 2010
I saw this film when I was 10 years old and fell in love with it. Now, at 31, I have rediscovered it and was amazed that it has withstood the test of time and remains the beautiful country movie that I remembered. The characters are well developed and three dimensional, which is good because a few of them come across as awful within the first ten minutes of the movie, making you want to hate them. A standout in the cast is Beverly D'Angelo and Tess Harper, who take their characters and run with them. Evilita is a spoiled, selfish, slutty young woman who's been married more over 6 times, while her spinster sister Sara Lee (Harper) has spent her life taking care of their elderly father. The whole family returns when he takes a turn for the worse and is not expected to live much longer. A hunt for his will is the main plot of the movie, but what keeps it going is the relationships between the family members. By the time the end credits roll, you will be misty eyed and grateful for having discovered this gem of a movie!
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I love this movie.
walker_eve24 November 2001
It's not action and it's not thrilling. It's perfect for those who bicker with their family and/or those that are nosy about what goes on in other families. A great afternoon movie that you can watch again and again and never grow tired. Great intro and ending song by Beverly. Beautiful song that fits the family's and our lives quite well.
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9/10
A Gem
gleekout2913 March 2018
One of my favorite movies. It's been awhile since I've seen this but Amy Wright, Tess Harper, Beau Bridges and Beverly D'Angelo are amazing as these characters and Patrika Darbo as Marlene is perfect. Momma Wheelis is probably the best character on the whole film.
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8/10
Great Film on Family Dynamics
dhbtn8 March 2021
A great film, soild relateable flawed characters, that in the end of all the meanness, pettyness, they are still family.
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Bitter garbage with a few sweet spots
hecs22 December 2003
The problem with this movie is the complete lack of main characters to care for on any level. They are mostly cruel, angry people who do not deserve a thing. Almost worthless outside the rather charming romance that develops between the characters played by Judge Reinhold and Patrika Darbo. Tess Harper is also a very sympathetic and likable character as a daughter always living in the shadow of her much loved sister and willing to sacrifice too much of her own life for some validation.
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Average
Wizard-831 March 2016
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With a title like "Daddy's Dyin'... Who's Got the Will?", one might understandably think that the movie is a comedy. While there are some somewhat lighthearted moments, the movie is actually for the most part a fairly serious drama. Its stage origins are pretty evident, since most of the movie takes place in one basic location, and most of what doesn't take place there is mostly of little to no consequence to the rest of the story. The real problem with the movie, however, is that it's kind of slow and not exactly brimming with a lot of plot. But there are some good moments here and there, such as the two scenes with the family singing around the piano, and the scene with Sara Lee and Clarence having a heart to heart talk. The cast is pretty good, with the best performance comes from Judge Reinhold, who makes his hippie character very likable. In the end, the movie is okay. Just don't sit down to watch it with the feeling that you are going to laugh a lot, however.
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This movie's dyin'...Who's got the remote?
vchimpanzee28 June 2007
I may be exaggerating about how bad the movie is. Sometimes I got the impression the performances were good, and occasionally this was funny. But it wasn't what I was hoping for, based on the title.

Yes, the four adult children of Buford Turnover have arrived at his Texas ranch to visit their father one last time. Sara Lee has to clean up her house so the very conservative and holier-than-thou Lurlene won't see anything inappropriate. Evalita, an aspiring country singer, arrives engaged to Harmony, a long-haired vegetarian hippie. And Orville brings his wife Marlene, who is trying to lose weight but can't seem to please her husband no matter what she does. Sara Lee claims to be marrying Clarence, but that's just a cover story so her family won't think she's ... can I use that word? I'd better not. Mama Wheelis (who doesn't look that much older than Buford) is even more Christian (mostly meaning judgmental) than Lurlene. It is her son who is dying, and he lost his wife Linnie Sue years ago.

All anyone seems to care about is what they're getting when Buford dies. And no one seems to know where the will is. Orville is the greediest and least caring of the whole group.

These people tried hard to make me laugh, and I suppose there's nothing wrong with a movie like this being partly a drama, but it just wasn't enough for me.

If any performances can be said to stand out, I would say Patrika Darbo as the frustrated Marlene, and Judge Reinhold as the sensitive and caring Harmony. Despite his rugged appearance, Harmony was a really nice person. This is partly good writing, of course.

The most touching moments, for me, were Buford's delusions as he watched his family singing around the piano. He thought he was seeing his wife and his young children.

There was lots of good music. I especially enjoyed the country band which Evalita sang with (until Harmony decided to join in; if I wanted to listen to Montgomery Gentry, I would).

It depends on the individual, I suppose. Southerners may enjoy this more than those from other parts of the country.
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Middling version of a colorful stage play.
Poseidon-318 December 2008
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Playwright Shores' country-fried comedy is opened up slightly (and pruned) for this low-key filmization. Remsen has suffered a series of mini-strokes and is close to passing away, an oncoming scenario that draws his four children around him, some of who are looking for a chunk of his estate. Lonely hairdresser Harper already lives with Remsen and his mother (!) McClure (in the play, she was his mother-in-law, which made a bit more sense.) Crass, abusive Bridges, Remson's only son, comes to the house with his chubby, but bubbly, wife Darbo. Bible-thumping Wright and oft-married singer D'Angelo complete the sibling quartet. Hippie Reinhold plays the latest of D'Angelo's many conquests. While Remsen slips closer and closer to death, his children bicker and debate about who should get what and who did what to who while simultaneously wondering where the man's last will and testament has landed. Harper does a pretty decent job in one of the less colorful roles. Her hair in frequently inconsistent from frame to frame, but generally she manages to add dimension to her character. Bridges is blustery and appropriately unappealing, though his part comes off as pretty one-dimensional. Darbo fares better as his wife and enjoys scenes of varying degrees of emotion and/or humor. Wright goes for an understated approach to her "praise the lord" type of character and loses a lot of opportunity for laughs (and identification) in the bargain. D'Angelo is excellent at presenting the loose, sleazy, yet needful, person she's asked to take on here while Reinhold tends to be appealing in his offbeat role. McClure's part, a vivid, funny, irascible character on stage is rendered mostly benign in this adaptation and the actress's voice is ill suited to the amusing aspects of the role. What was a tacky, sometimes-rowdy, arresting little comedy on stage is a somnambulistic snooze through most of its running time thanks to a far too laid back directorial style, languid pacing, the removal of various plot threads and lines and a musical score that has basically nothing to do with the time or place nor enhances the action on screen. The comic momentum of the scenes is spoiled by a decision to crosscut action in different locales rather than tell the story in its original form. There are also many lulls in the dialogue and action, with some of the colorful comments removed in the process. Sadly, the actors mostly do not (or were not permitted to) fully inhabit their roles with the necessary gusto to make the film spark. If there's a high point, it would be the burgeoning relationship and the acting scenes between Reinhold and Darbo. It's not a washout, but it's not the rousing, rambunctious comedy it could have been. This same author gave the world "Sordid Lives," which is a bit more outrageous than this story. Carradine appears briefly as a local hunk, a part that was only spoken of in the stage play.
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