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Can't wait to see it again!
k10ann6 December 2004
I have been looking forward to this film for months. The passion that this filmmaker has for this project makes me want to give it 10 stars! I thought the strongest aspect of the film were the haunting images of Marilyn and Norma Jeane. I found myself gasping a few times at the seemingly effortless beauty that Marilyn possessed. The story as told by Jim Dougherty unveiled the truth about her life, as well as her transformation from a disadvantaged little girl to a glamorous legend. I was particularly touched by Jim's recount of her when they were first married, and his pure love for Norma Jeane. I was surprised to hear that he didn't think many people really liked Marilyn, and he clearly didn't think much of what he considered an alter personality. This is a must see film for anyone who loves Marilyn or loves a romantic (yet tragic) story line.
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3/10
Perhaps for Jim Dougherty fans only
take2docs16 November 2019
Warning: Spoilers
The title is not in reference to Joe DiMaggio or to Arthur Miller, but to a man named Jim Dougherty. If you've never heard of him, that's because many millions of people likely haven't, either. (One wonders whether Frank Sinatra and JFK had even heard of him.) The subject of this documentary was none other than Ms. Monroe's first ever hubby. Together, they produced no children, otherwise this might have been a trilogy.

Did Marilyn Monroe know too much about flying saucers? Was she about to spill the beans on this or some other top-secret info? Did she die accidentally by drug overdose, or did she commit suicide? Or was she murdered? This is not that kind of documentary. There are few insights and revelations into Ms. Monroe's life as a celebrity and the mystery surrounding her death. It's a movie about as vapid as was Marilyn Monroe's vacuous public persona.

As the title suggests, this is more about Mr. Dougherty than anyone else. As likable as this fellow is, that is not a good thing. I personally found him to be a bit of a bore; a soporific rambler. There are numerous scenes of him reminiscing on his recliner, or while driving his car or tuning a guitar, having to do with his early football days and his time spent in target practice on a shooting range, and what-not. Viewers might be more interested in learning what ultimately had led to his failed marriage with Norma Jean Dougherty, instead, but for this movie that is apparently too irrelevant a matter to be given consideration.

A brief history: Mr. Dougherty was, when he met Norma Jean, a man who had been working in an aircraft factory. He was also her next-door neighbor, at the time. Four years her senior, they ended up marrying each other in 1942, when Jim was 21. Mr. Dougherty, in one moment of the movie, confesses that he thought Norma Jean was rather beautiful, but that he had married her so as to save her from a particular situation, more than anything else. My guess is that for most guys this would have been a burden, but Jim had truly loved Norma Jean. (Whether the feeling was mutual may not be as certain.)

The movie simply isn't all that interesting or revealing. Although, Mr. Dougherty does offer up a bit of analysis when he mentions that had Norma Jean stayed with him, they likely would have gone on to have grandchildren, and that were it not for her changing her name and becoming famous, that she would not have died the way that she did. Kudos to the subject for providing us with these profound insights.

Perhaps the greatest revelation in the movie is when Mr. Dougherty shares with us the memory of his first wife, Norma Jean, being just as human as the rest of us, in the way of expelling flatulence. The story is told of Norma Jean having let out one doozy of a fart inside a movie theater and subsequently clearing a few seats in the process. She had thought this funny; Jim, didn't. I cannot help but think that this particular anecdote might end up shattering the illusions of numerous Monroe fans, of her having been this superhuman sexpot incapable of breaking wind, but if it's any consolation it should be remembered that it wasn't Marilyn per se but rather Norma Jean who was responsible for the stinker.

There are several early photographs shown of both Norma Jean and Marilyn, and some of these are displayed side-by-side, resembling a split-screen. The transition in appearances shown in these comparative shots is astounding: from radiant brunette to how most people remember her. It is a somewhat sad contrast to behold, in that Ms. Monroe was a tragic figure who died too young and never seemed as sincerely happy as the felicity which is evident in the Norma Jean photos.

As for the movie's production values, the quality of the picture is akin to that of a video-cam. The editing is without any sense of shape or arc; it all seems somewhat arbitrarily compiled. The movie's pace is poor; it lacks momentum. Then there is the most flawed aspect of all: the intermittent sequences containing cheesy music - songs oozing pathos, which come across as gratuitous and mismatched insertions that only end up detracting from the visuals. It's here where the mute button on one's remote best comes into play.

The movie includes that flagrant footage of Marilyn singing "Happy Birthday Mr. President," performed three months before her death. Mr. Dougherty says here that in his opinion, Marilyn's death was accidental. He also mentions of how he can't picture her having ever kept a diary. If there was one (and there are some people who were close to Monroe who feel that there was), how that would make for the subject of a really intriguing documentary!

Idolaters of Marilyn Monroe would likely praise this movie, but for others who will only go so far as to acknowledge the beauty of Ms. Monroe and how she was an underrated actress, this is all in all a disappointing tribute to her, as well as a lackluster and forgettable remembrance of Norma Jean.

(Incidentally, I thought Ashley Judd turned in a wonderful performance as Norma Jean in the excellent 1996 feature, "Norma Jean & Marilyn.")
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1/10
15 minutes lasting 14 minutes too long!
ldavis-214 April 2005
I read the director said he made this movie because he wanted to restore Jim Dougherty's place in history. Of course, if his first wife hadn't become you-know-who, he wouldn't even be a blip on the radar.

All of her biographers have noted that Monroe was furious when Dougherty told Photoplay in 1953 that she was so in love with him, she threatened to jump off the Santa Monica Pier if he left her. Little wonder how she'd react to his claims that he created "Marilyn Monroe;" that she was forced to divorce him; and, even when she was the biggest star in the world, she yearned to return to him. How do I put this? Hogwash! Not only is there no evidence they stayed in contact, according to the 8/6/62 New York Times, when her "dedicated friend for life" was informed of her death, he merely said "I'm sorry," and didn't attend her funeral.

He also makes another claim: that he created S.W.A.T. It was, in fact, LAPD Officer John Nelson who presented the S.W.A.T. concept to then-Inspector Darryl Gates.

One of the posters said the film tells the truth; the only "truth" is the pack of lies Dougherty has been peddling for over 50 years in interviews, books, and now this movie. The director should have taken his cue from Norma Jeane herself, and kicked "Jimmie" to the curb like the loser he is!
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10/10
The Truth Is Here!
mrvagabond14 January 2004
Excellent film, quailty script, soundtrack, editing, all superb! Schani Krug's directorial debut has certainly been worth the wait. The Soundtrack is mesmerizing! The songs take you back to the 40's 50's and 60's. Finally, The Truth...
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10/10
Just Got The DVD sent from Australia (first release place)
guatemala199223 May 2005
I and my wife are big Marilyn Monroe fans, but we are tired of the boring documentaries that are on TV constantly. Finally, someone has done a documentary about her that has beauty and very new information we hadn't known about,and the music is really great. The film just got released in Australia,so I got it sent to me by a friend. Wow. This should be seen on the big screen!!! What is different about the movie is it's interplay of music, both from the era of Marilyn Monroe, and new songs that were created for the movie, and the new images shown throughout the movie. It has very sad and very happy parts to it, and the songs are placed very well to evoke her and her husband's love and the loss we all feel about her. Definitely go see it or get it for the home.
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a thorough pleasure
chiartz1 December 2004
I don't usually like documentaries. They can be plodding and unmoving. Finally, I got to see a documentary with depth and flow, and heart to it. Marilyn's Man blew me away with it's use of beautiful images of Marilyn and not the usual stuff you see. This shows a time when she was not famous and when she was innocent and unbroken by the ghouls of Hollywood. There are so many new images of her when she was Norma Jean Baker and not the jaded over- exposed Marilyn we all have in our minds. But even the never-before-seen images of her as superstar are shockingly revealing and multi-varied. She had so many looks as Marilyn Monroe and this comes out in the new images. While I would see this film for it's almost haunting mix of images and songs (a great soundtrack too!), it is the plain spoken words of her first husband (married to her when she was fresh and young and untouched by Fame) that adds the grounding that every documentary needs. We have to gather new info from a documentary and there is plenty of it. It's as if the director found the last squeeze of the Marily Monroe reality-toothpaste-tube. Bizarre! To my knowledge, Jim Dougherty has never been extensively interviewed by anyone about his years with Norma Jeane/Marily Monroe. You get a treasure trove of new info--told by the man who had this amazing Goddess first! My favorite scene is when Dougherty recalls waking up and seeing Norma Jeane sitting up in bed and staring out the window at the silver moon. She is in a state we all get into at times in our lives, wondering why we are on this planet and for what purpose. Then she asks Jim if he sees the beauty in the moon like her. During this flashback the incredibly beautiful music melts your senses too! Simply put, SEE THIS MOVIE! It has great flow and momentum. Make sure you bring some tissue though because your emotions might well up!
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Marvelous Movie
spicer048461 December 2004
I have seen this wonderful movie. Norma Jean will now shine in the eyes of all Marilyn fans world wide. This film humanizes the woman who has become immortal! She was after all only one woman. Jim has set the record straight....all because of his undying love. What a true romance! We all love Marilyn...now we can love Norma Jean as well! Anyone who minimizes the essence of this story has never truly been in love! Not unlike a childless person....claiming to know anything re:raising children!

All this and done with local ingenuity. It is refreshing to find that not all movies have to come from Hollywood. There is such talent locally and it shines through in Marilyn's Man.
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Interesting, but not wonderful
Vodstok30 November 2004
First off, my wife is a huge Marilyn fan and she though Jim Dougherty came off as a bitter ex-husband trying to make a name for him because at one point in his life, he was with someone who became somebody.

The film itself is filled with tons of images of Marilyn, as well as some hard to find footage. Jim does share some cute stories about Norma Jeanne. However, for the most part, the movie is about Jim. (Not a problem there, it IS what the title implies). There is some obligatory butt-kissing to his current wife, who has to live with the fact that her husband was once married to the most glamorous woman ever born.

Personal opinions about the subject matter aside, this movie pretty much sums up what I don't care for in independent films. The score was terrible. Much of the movie felt like a wannabe film student making a home video on his computer with the help of a "for any user of any skill" video editing program, complete with static image slides and canned fade-ins. The intro scene with "Norma Jeanne" (played by an actress who couldn't look less like Norma jean or Marilyn" was easily one of the most painful experiences I have ever had sitting in a theater. Even worse than watching Two Towers in the first row on the far right of the theater.

I was easily embarrassed enough by seeing it to make up for the entire rest of the audience. When there is no dialogue, no speaking at all, and all you have to do is write and walk around, there is really no excuse for poor acting, yet the actress managed to pull it off anyway.

I truly did not enjoy this movie, and would not in good conscience recommend it to anyone. 2 out of ten. They would get a 1, but I figure some props are due because they actually got it off the ground with next to no budget.
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