Her inability to pay attention to things is obvious, and even mentioned by Robert. The things he finds annoying about her are legitimate. She doesn't listen or pay attention at all. And Ray is correct, talking during movies is rude (that was in a later episode but it does bear out Robert being annoyed). In a relationship, when one person says 'we have to talk' the other person should listen and find out what's going on, and they should have a conversation. When Robert tries to have a serious conversation with Stefania, she just keeps messing around. It reminds me of a kid with ADD that can't pay attention in class. Stefania didn't seem like this when they were Italy, but she was still living with her father in her late 20s or early 30s, so we maybe were supposed to assume that although gorgeous she maybe isn't too smart. I do agree Robert seems to get a lot of women, even though they don't live up to his standards. A lot of guys don't get that many chances, so I'd say his standards may be a little rough. If it was me, I'd make a little more effort to make things work, but I would find it hard to tolerate talking during movies or eating bugs. But anyway this is a funny episode, which holds up after all these years.