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7/10
Dancing schools? Wow, who sent boys to dancing schools?
pensman28 April 2017
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Beaver has tried everything to avoid dancing school, but today is different; Beaver is actually happy. What's wrong? Even Wally is shocked. Why did he like staying there for two hours? It's a girl, Betsy Patterson. Now Beaver wants a new suit so Betsy won't laugh at the one he's wearing. Mrs. Thompson is having a party at dancing school, and Beaver intends to ask Betsy. Beaver finds her number and Wally tries to coach Beaver on phone manners, but Beaver asks her in his own style, and she accepts. Now after having ditched so many classes, Beaver has Wally try and teach him to dance. Wally tries but concludes that Beaver is a horrible dancer.

I love June's views on dancing school. If parents didn't make their children go to dancing school they would grow up to be crude and rude teenagers. It certainly was a differ time. Frequently, I view Leave It to Beaver as a sort of fictional documentary of my childhood, but I gather you had to live in a neighborhood much more upscale than mine to even hear about boys attending a dancing school. Sadly, I must have been one of those crude teenagers June referenced. Wally gets an invitation to the dance also. In his case, as a former student, he's wanted as a chaperon. Wally's going, but under protest; and Ward gave him five dollars.

Wally is escorting Julie Foster, who will also be a chaperon. Now that Saturday night has arrived, Beaver is nervous. Wally says just follow him and do as he does. Beaver's nervousness increases, even more so when Betsy now looks like a girl. Back at home, June is wondering if Beaver is having a good time. Ward says no, no sixth-grade boy ever enjoyed his first dance. And it is obvious Beaver missed a few lessons: how to pour punch, how to ask other girls for a dance, and how to stay away from friends who will lead you astray.

Beaver survives the night but disappeared. Wally asked if was because Betsy was dancing with other boys. Naw, he just went outside with Richard and Whitey and forgot all about her. No doubt Ward would be pleased to hear that as he felt from the start sixth graders shouldn't be out any sort of "date." June might be a little disappointed to discover her efforts to teach Beaver social graces didn't quite take. I'm with Ward, and I'm pretty sure that not only me but most of my friends didn't "see" girls until somewhere around ninth grade. Today with parents dressing their daughters from fourth grade up to look like they're in their late teens, who knows how soon boys notice them.
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7/10
Beaver's approaching adolescence and changing social mores
AlsExGal16 March 2024
This episode has to do with a special dance that Beaver's dance school is putting on in which boys are required to ask one of the girls in the class to the dance. Beaver finds himself liking one of the girls in the class - a new girl who has just moved to Mayfield. He admits he thinks that he likes her just because she is new, but he has decided that he would like to ask her, so he leans on Wally for advice, and the result is endearing. I really liked how Wally helps his brother with words of wisdom about the whole situation.

Wally, having gone to dancing school when he was younger, and Beaver, now a student, seem reluctant about the whole matter of dance class - like they would not go if not made to do so. And it seems to be June who is the main proponent of their participation as she does not want them to grow up to be "crude human beings".

But the construct of Beaver's date is just bizarre. Beaver formally asks the girl over the phone to go with him, but the night of the big dance Beaver and Wally, who has been invited as a chaperon, walk out the door together - apparently this place is in walking distance - and Beaver meets the girl AT the dance. Why did he ask her to go with him as a date when he is in fact just going to see her at the dance?

The whole concept of dance class is a social construct of which I have no experience. I grew up in the 60s and early 70s, in the suburb of a big city, and I have no recollection of anybody I know going to dance class. Maybe that is because, in 1964, with the coming of the Beatles and reliable birth control and the whole counterculture movement, society just moved on from such formalities. Eating establishments needed the floorspace and so they pushed out the dancing and put in more tables. So Leave it To Beaver really does describe mores and institutions that were on their way out by the middle to late 60s. But it's all the more interesting because of that.
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5/10
Beaver Chooses Betsy Patterson
StrictlyConfidential10 December 2020
(*Wally to Beaver quote*) - "You mean you really like dancing school?"

Mrs. Thompson is holding a special party for her dancing school students.

Beaver has asked Betsy Patterson to be his date.

Beaver has asked his mother to buy him a new suit.

Wally Cleaver and Julie Foster (former students) will be the chaperons at this party.
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5/10
Beaver first notices girls
vitoscotti12 July 2021
Beaver's opinion of girls is changing as time goes on. Other than that an unspectacular episode. The prim & proper dance is quite silly.
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