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9/10
yamada yoji's wicked trick!
yasminthestoryteller18 March 2008
It's a funny business, reviewing movies. These days when "internalized emotions" and "emotional detachment" are favored over straightforward sentimentality, it must be hard to stay faithful to your true feelings.

Soon after completing jury duties at the 58th Berlinale, I managed to catch Yoji Yamada's Kabei.

After the screening, I watched folks dreamily amble out of the theatre hall, watery-eyed, men, women, and reviewers alike. Even the director of the Berlinale, obviously a hardened viewer of cinema, confessed to having been caught unawares and found himself crying three quarter's way into this unashamedly sentimental experience.

But what really surprised me were the reviews that came after. Despite being ineffably moved by the film, many reviewers chose to be tepid and emotionally non-committal in their writing. Apparently, post weeping, they had put on their "thinking cap", and consequently, missed out on what I felt was the genius about Kabei.

Allow me to explain.

Set in pre-war Japan, the story of Kabei revolves around one writer's family, and their fate therein, after he is held in jail for what was described as "thought crimes" against the Imperial will. Through a series of protracted emotional scenes, Yamada gets us familiar with the man, his loyal wife and two daughters, as well as three side characters—the man's pretty young sister, a bumbling ex-student, and a cad of an uncle – all come to help the family cope with their plight, in the absence of the man of the house.

The story moves along at a slow albeit steady pace, and heartbreaks occur at precisely the moments everyone is able to predict. This of course makes it near impossible for anyone in the audience to get too emotionally distraught by any dramatic event.

In other words, although you learn to love the family and their helpers, and sympathize with their unfortunate situation, you get so lulled by the certainty of the plot that you find yourself expecting a particular kind of ending.

However, two hours into the film (don't worry, Yamada provides the viewer with sufficient moments of gravity and levity to tide you along), he slaps you with what I can only describe as "the sting". All that you have assumed to be what the story was about—an innocent man wrenched from his faithful wife and daughters – now suddenly points to one of the family helpers. Someone you have hitherto taken for granted is now thrown into an unexpected twist of fate.

At this point, something curious happened in the theatre I was in. Everyone started sobbing with little or no inhibition.

"My word!" I muttered under my breath. It struck me then that "Kabei", in the final analysis, was more than a film about a family torn apart by an empire on the verge of war. It was, in fact, a cunning examination of one common human foible: How little we cared about the secret feelings of people who are closest to us.

Now, the most common criticism made about the film was that it was technically solid, but lacked innovation. That's what happens when reviewers put on their proverbial thinking cap, I guess. With Kabei, I believe Yoji Yamada knew exactly what trick he was going to employ to touch on one unique aspect of humanity. A wicked old trick he so seamlessly applied in the Tora-san series, and later, in Tasogare Sebei.

After lulling the audience into a sort of narrative comfort zone, he throws us into a realm of emotions rarely explored in cinema.

This, to me, is the most effective cinematic tool of all. One which avoids detection, but affects you deeply. And proof of its effectiveness was a thousand wet pieces of Kleenex, thrown into a litter bin just outside of that thousand-seater cinema hall.

Now if only some reviewers would resist being so caught up with being smart that they forget what cinema is really about. Human emotions. Pure and simple.
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9/10
Yamada Youji delivers again
ethSin15 August 2008
"Kaabee" depicts the hardship of a woman in pre and during WWII, raising her kids alone after her husband imprisoned for "thought crime". This movie was directed by Yamada Youji, and as expected the atmosphere of this movie is really wonderful. Although the historical correctness of some scenes, most notably the beach scene, is a suspect.

The acting in this movie is absolutely incredible. I am baffled at how they managed to gather this all-star cast for a 2008 film. Yoshinaga Sayuri, possibly the most decorated still-active actress in Japan, will undoubtedly win more individual awards for her performance in this film. Shoufukutei Tsurube in a supporting role was really nice as well. It was Asano Tadanobu though, who delivered the most impressive performance, perfectly portraying the wittiness of his character and the difficult situation he was in.

Films with pre-war setting is not my thing, but thanks to wonderful directing and acting, I was totally absorbed by the story. Also, it wasn't a far-left nonsense like "Yuunagi no Machi, Sakura no Kuni", and examines the controversial and sensitive issue of government oppression and brainwashing that occurred in that period in Japan. Excellent film, highly recommended for all viewers.
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8/10
Outstanding and unexpectedly weepy movie
ledorky6 February 2011
I came into this not knowing anything about the movie and as soon as Tobei was arrested, my thinking cap came into play and became instantly wary about what was to come (i.e. very predictable plot about to unfold). Well the plot was close to what I imagined it would be but I can't say enough about the wonderful acting. Especially of Kabei (Sayuri Yoshinaga) and the kids. Even bumbling Ichi the Killer was passable and provided some levity to an otherwise pretty depressing movie. The hot aunt was very easy on the eyes and the old lecher of an uncle was also pretty hilarious. My one complaint was that Sayuri looked a bit old to play the part, she looked more like a grandma but her acting was impeccable. I won't write about the plot since the other reviewers have practically revealed everything but the overall pace was good and the directing not heavy handed. The movie looked a little low-budget at times but I can't fault the movie for that. Must see on Netflix if you're a subscriber. Prepare the tissues since IMO it's impossible to cry if you're a normal human watching this flick.
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10/10
A Nutshell Review: Kabei Our Mother
DICK STEEL1 May 2009
My introduction into Yoji Yamada's cinematic world is through his famed and recent Samurai Trilogy with The Twilight Samurai, The Hidden Blade and Love and Honor. I had enjoyed all three films, and looking at the prolific, veteran director's filmography, I think it'll take me a very long while to watch all his films, especially the Tora-san series. Needless to say when Kabei Our Mother has finally reached our shores, I jumped at the chance to watch what would be an ode to Mothers everywhere, celebrating their innate love for their children.

Based on the autobiography of Teruyo Nogami, Kabei - Our Mother tells of a close knit family of four – Mother Kayo "Kabei" (Sayuri Yoshinaga), Father Shigeru "Tobei" (Mitsugoro Bando), eldest daughter Hatsu (Mirai Shida) and youngest child Teru (Miku Sato). From the get go their lives would be changed forever, when Shigeru gets arrested under the Peace Preservation Law for his morally controversial writings against the nation, set in the late 30s where Japan had begun their "crusade" in China, and thereafter their participation in WWII.

So begins Kabei's struggle to hold down jobs to feed her family, and the frequent, difficult meetings with her husband behind bars. Help comes from relatives, especially on Shigeru's side, since Kabei's own dad had adopted an "I told you so" attitude with her choice of spouse. Shigeru's one time student Yama (arthouse buffs should recognize Tadanobu Asano here) provides laughter as a bumbling man who slowly becomes confidante and surrogate guardian to the children, and Kabei's sister in law Hisako (Rei Dan) from Hiroshima, which I believe would have sounded some hindsight alarm bells as to her unfortunate fate as the film progresses through its timeline.

While the film centers primarily on how the kids are growing up under the presence of their mom, and in a distant relationship with their dad, what I enjoyed is how the microscopic family events unfold under the macroscopic worldwide events that have impacted on the common folk in Japan. It's against the historical backdrop of Japan's push to regional dominance, and there are characters here that don't mask those ambitions, even discussing what the country would eventually do should it be successful in holding onto conquered lands. This is something I rarely see in Japanese films, being that frank in their discussion of that era, and also to get a glimpse of how the common man have to struggle against domestic issues made all the more difficult with resources channeled toward the war effort.

The actresses casted here are pitch perfect in their delivery and roles, be they the veterans or the child actors. Actress Sayuri Yoshinaga deserves special mention for her role as the motherly figure who has to dig deep and find that inner strength to carry the household through under trying circumstances, while Mirai Shida and Miku Sato are lovable as the understanding children who have to learn to make do and compromise. Each scene with the three of them together just makes it heart wrenching when the going gets tough, or fill your heart with Joy should they be celebrating. Before long you'll soon find yourself being attracted to want to be part of this family, thanks to the primary cast's powerful performances, with Yoji Yamada coaxing some really natural performances from the kids.

Kabei - Our Mother boasts some stunningly beautiful art direction, and is classy in its delivery of both happy and sad moments without going over the top, or relying on cheap melodrama to cheapen the emotions it seeks from the audience. There are plenty of little things here done right which makes it pitch perfect, with every scene not being wasted, and with every nuance very meaningful in conveying its message across, be it compassion or love.

Aside from the very abrupt ending (I had hoped that it could have continued for a lot more, despite its more than 2 hours runtime), Kabei Our Mother comes highly recommended, and you'll find it difficult to be holding back either your tears, or that thought about your own mom and her sacrifices she makes for you on an everyday basis. Just what those sacrifices are should you need another reminder, then the scene during the end credits roll will remind you of the stuff that you'd probably have taken for granted.
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A Sublime Beauty!
jpb5819 September 2009
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Kabei: Our Mother (2008) is a poetic and sublime beauty from Japan. A real weeper! I had heard great reviews for the film and rented it from Netflix. Am I glad I did! In many ways this film reminded me of the old style of Japanese classic film-making from the 1940's and 1950's that I've come to love so much, such as seen in Yasujiro Ozu pictures -- the title credits even begin in the same way, with the Japanese letters (characters) in red against neutral color burlap material. I immediately thought: this director loves Ozu. The same style was used too: mostly indoor sets with only a few outdoor scenes. Even a couple of "pillow shots", as Roger Ebert calls them. The strength of the film is built on the love of the characters for one another.

The story follows the lives of a Japanese family before, and during, and after, World War Two. The mother takes care of her growing girls the best she can after the father (a University professor) is arrested for anti-war sympathies. He's never freed and only has a few brief meetings with his wife in prison before he dies of starvation and disease. Meanwhile a former student of the professor comes by often to help take care of the mother and two girls. He begins to fall in love with the mother and is a substitute father for the two girls. But war starts and he's drafted and they have to say an abrupt farewell. Will they ever express their love for one another? Will he ever return from the war?

There is so much heart and gentle spirit in the performance of the lead actress, Sayuri Yoshinaga. She's almost a Madonna type, she's so beautiful! Big soulful eyes and flawless skin. The actor who plays the student is phenomenal as well: his name is Tadanobu Asano. What a sensitive performance. There is no macho in him at all; he's gentle and kind. I'd certainly love to see both of these two in other movies. I think I'll check to see what's available for them. The two little child actresses are wonderful too.

The film is just released on NTSC DVD for American audiences, with very easy to read English subtitles. I gave it a 10 out of 10 on the IMDb. I cried almost as much as with the Japanese film classic Twenty-Four Eyes (1954). Don't miss this film!
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10/10
To all Mothers
lreynaert27 July 2009
A Chinese scholar who criticizes harshly the arrogant nationalist, warmongering policies of the ruling clique around the emperor in pre-war Japan, is accused of being a 'communist' and jailed for life. His loving wife, who supports totally her husband and his ideas, is left alone to save her family from starvation. This movie is a huge statue erected in praise of the role of the mother in the history of mankind. Sayuri Yoshinaga is not less than sublime in the title role and it was a monumental scandal that she didn't get an Asian Oscar for the best female role in 2009. It went to a young girl with very limited acting potential.

This deeply moving and most 'human' feature is a must see for all 'true children' on earth.
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7/10
Realistic but can be just way too normal for some viewers...
KineticSeoul3 January 2013
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This is a slow moving movie that can get the audiences immersed in a Japanese family and the stuff they go through during 1940's when japan decides to invade other nations. Although the family this movie focuses on is very normal and there is nothing that really makes them stand out all that much. The characters are very believable and sometimes I didn't feel I was watching acting. But real people go about their daily lives. This movie doesn't have a direct plot but it focuses on the wife Kabei and what she does for her family when her honorable husband gets arrested for his freedom of thought. There is some messages in this movie about how unethical laws are better than no laws. Maybe to some degree that is true, but I have been screwed over by the law and sometimes I get the feeling it's just not right. Although that is life, it effects good people in a negative way while the bad ones gets away. And laws are suppose to be just but even today it's far from it sometimes. And that is one of the aspects that is covered in this movie. But most of the character in this movie is dis-likable, except Kabei to some degree even if she comes off really mundane despite her circumstances, her husband and Yamazaki Toru(Tadanobu Asano) is the only characters that are likable. Most of the others are nationalistic and narrow minded people that still thought during the 1940's that their emperor is some kind of divine god. And that they are the chosen ones to conquer everything else in their path. And this movie does a pretty good job of showing the arrogance of some people during that era and how they lacked ethics but filled with false pride. It was kinda difficult to feel compassion for the Japanese families in that era while watching this flick since they had it alright during that era and their struggles are irrelevant because the Japanese government brought it upon themselves at that time. By invading and raping innocent women in other nations and also bombing vessels that they really shouldn't have. while torturing and enslaving many others. While a lot of the Japanese people supported it although some probably didn't know exactly what was going on. So the struggles the main family in this movie face just seemed like a walk in the park. Just being honest. So the constant complaining from the family members seemed irrelevant at times. Like when the daughters complains about their bad mannered uncle or going to school or being slightly hungry. Yeah that is what kids complain about but at least they weren't beaten up for learning Japanese, starved to death, treated as a test subject or raped. What happened is what happened. But since the youngsters didn't know what was really going on there is a bit of sympathy for those characters. Now if this movie took place in present time with the Japanese family presented in the movie, it would be more effective when it comes to bringing out compassion. The main family is likable for the most part although nothing really stands out about them much. But I did like how this movie doesn't try to take sides but show a realistic portrayal of how some people in japan acted during that era. While showing the good and the bad like everywhere else in the world. While also showing the motives even if it's positive or negative which is a more humanistic, realistic portrayal and direction. And how hate can lead to suffering and devastation even if it's not entirely a war movie. But shows how suffering can happen in their own nation even while invading others. Although this movie is about 2 hours long it felt really long though because of the realism and how it just seemed way too normal sometimes. I can understand how some audiences would be immersed with this movie because of the realism or bored to tears because of it. The last few minutes is a slight bit of a tear jerker and striking, I guess because of the realistic build up.

7.5/10
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10/10
Writhing in National Shame
jimfairchild6 February 2012
Yoji Yamada's Kabei — Our Mother begins in the late 1930s after Japan had initiated what later became known as The Second Sino-Japanese War. The film begins with Kayo Nogami's husband, a respected intellectual who teaches at the University, writing an article protesting the war with China. Seeing this as a betrayal, the Japanese government brutally arrests him in front of his family for a "thought crime." Yamada is best known for directing a trilogy of Samurai films, especially The Twilight Samurai, which was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Foreign Film and won an unprecedented 12 Japanese Academy Awards, including Best Picture, Best Director, Best Actor, Best Actress, and Best Screenplay (written by Yamada). His later films remind me of Akira Kurosawa, not just for their Samurai themes, but for their sensitivity and deep humanity, and Kabei is no exception. Born in 1931, Yamada would have been about the age of the youngest daughter Teryu, who narrates the story as an older woman looking back. After "Tobei" is imprisoned, his wife Kayo, played by the beautiful Sayuri Yoshinaga, struggles to provide for her family, including two daughters aged around six and twelve I would guess. This exquisitely filmed movie follows the mother's heroic efforts, with only a few sympathetic supporters, to survive in a completely hostile environment. Kabei has been called "dark" for the harsh treatment Kayo and her daughters receive, but Yamada's tender depiction of the family and Yoshinaga's astonishing performance lift it from tragedy to triumph. Usually, a younger actor progressively plays an older one, but in this film Yoshinaga, around 65 when she made Kabei, starts out playing a young mother!
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9/10
Right there
kosmasp18 July 2008
Actually one particular person/character isn't "right there", but my summary line is referring to the power of the movie. And this is all achieved without any fancy camera moves and/or big production sets, but with a great story and very (believable) and good actors conveying the story (arc).

You could call it a companion piece to great japan movies/cinema (such as Tokyo Story etc.), not so much story-wise of course, but more mood-wise! Great acting, nuances in the performances that are truly gems. If you're eager to experience a touching story and want to see a movie touching you emotionally, than this is the one to go. As you have noticed (as with many of my reviews), I'm not getting into the story. There are places here at IMDb where you can look those up, I'm not one to spoiler the story whatsoever!
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5/10
Kabei: Our Mother (2008)
SnakesOnAnAfricanPlain17 January 2012
Yoji Yamada is one of today's most brilliant directors. I have really enjoyed his period pieces, which have brought back fun memories of classic Samurai movies. Yamada has a subtle and quiet voice which he usually uses well. Kabei: Our Mother seemed like it came from a different director altogether. Set out like a series of memoirs, the film relied heavily on an intrusive narration and episodic structure. I never felt at ease, or intrigued, by the films pace. There were segments I enjoyed, most involving Asano, who kept his emotions in the open without making them obvious. The end was also very melodramatic, with screaming and crying forcing their way in. It was all very 'bitty', but each individual 'bit' had something to enjoy.
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9/10
"Kabei" = Yoji Yamada's important film showing devastation of WWII and the amazing compassion & perseverence of a Japanese mother.
Ed-from-HI1 July 2019
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Kabei: Our Mother" (Japan release circa2008) is an important and historically-engaging film by renowned director Yoji Yamada (who did "Twilight Samurai" "The Hidden-Blade" and of course the much beloved 'Tora-san = Otoko wa Tsurai yo" movie series). The lead Star portraying the steadfast caring mother Kayo Nogami nicknamed "Kabei" is Sayuri Yoshinaga = one of Japan's most famous and gifted actresses who starred in "Tengoku no eki = Station to Heaven" and "Hana no ran* = A Chaos of Flowers" two of the best/ most emotionally resonant Japanese films from the 1980's (both had repeated showings on the NGN Cable channel in Hawaii a few years back).

In any event, "Kabei" first released in 2008 is an important historical drama shedding light on a portion of Japanese pre and post WWII history that is not revisited much in movies = i.e. the tumultuous time beginning with Japan's 1930's ambitious-intensive military build-up, a time in which those prescient writers & thinkers warning that Wars of aggression & expansionism could bring catastrophe to Japan were often branded guilty of 'thought-crimes' against the Imperial-State resulting in arrest and protracted-prison stays (a theme that does harken back to Akira Kurosawa's courageous early masterpiece, "No Regrets for our Youth = Waga seishun ni kuinashi" circa1946, starring legendary Setsuko Hara)

But Yoji Yamada's film "Kabei" is not 'heavy-handed' in its presentation of the political-struggles in those tumultuous-times = the movie's main focus is on the daily hardships and incredible perseverance mustered by the beleaguered mother and wife Kayo Nogami (nicknamed 'Kabei') whose husband Shigeru had been arrested and imprisoned indefinitely for publishing essays opposing military-expansionism, thus leaving Kabei and her two young daughters to fend for themselves in a Japan just entering WWII, encountering the growing hardships due to extremely limited-resources and the subsequent Loss-of-life of the able-bodied (taking a greater-and-greater toll on average Japanese citizenry and families as the horrific War progresses)

Sayuri Yoshinaga gives an authentic performance as the mother doing everything possible (and more) to hold the remaining family together while maintaining the moral spirits of her daughters and giving them the will to persevere even under the darkened shroud of Chaos, catastrophe and personal loss (with the shadow of 'death' perpetually lingering at 'Kabei's doorstep imperiling loved-ones with terrifying regularity) = a most common fate shared by families during the latter-stages of WWII and its immediate aftermath in Japan (and elsewhere of course).

Without giving away any more of the story, there are also glimmers of hope and potential for healing at least among the younger generations (represented by Kabei's two daughters) as the film transports the viewer closer to the modern/present-Day in the latter part of this film.....but an indelible sadness and sense of eternal loss still lingers in the final scenes.........also that the tremendous hardships endured and sacrifices made by their devoted mother 'Kabei' can never be fully appreciated or ever fully repaid.

Note: the only critique I have about Yoji Yamada's film is that it was obviously made on a very limited budget and the scenes depicting the End of War, and immediate Aftermath could have gained emotional impact thru a larger-scale more 'cinematic' showing of actual devastation etc.

note*: "Hana no ran" is the 1988 film in which Sayuri Yoshinaga portrayed famous Taisho era poet Akiko Yosano.
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9/10
Human at war
sunny896430 January 2022
The film is as warm as water, and it erupts just right in the rapids. Before the characters cry, the audience will cry. Wars are politicians playing tricks on real people, so-called traitors, usually deeply in love with a country run by demons. In a sense, both thought criminals and traitors are honors.

The past Showa era is the same as today's new era of Xitler (Xi Jinping). Xitler will takes China to war. Chinese who oppose Xitler are true patriots.
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5/10
Disappointing Light-Weight Drama.
net_orders12 September 2016
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Viewed on DVD. Film score = two (2) stars. The focus of this film is on an extended family facing hard times before, during, and after WW II. A common cinematic genre sometimes referred to as Shomin Geki (home drama). In this version, Director Youji Yamada offers up a story containing all the ingredients for a fine melodrama except one: energized direction. This weary film renders viewer attempts to identify (and tear-up empathize) with photo play characters a decidedly uphill slog. It also makes for characters that often come across as two dimensional--with the notable exceptions of child actresses Mirai Shida and Miku Satou who, as daughters, energetically (and delightfully) steal every scene they are in! Scene narration (apparently by a now-grown daughter) is sporadic and seems extraneous. Narration accompanying the closing credits is trivial drivel, but now spoken by a male actor! (A voice from beyond the grave, perhaps?) Score consists of mostly Faux opera singing by a woman (with piano accompaniment). Overdone, it quickly becomes an annoying distraction and ends up sounding more like screeching (or strangulation!) than singing. Cinematography (semi-wide screen, color) is good. Interior design is fine, but exteriors (except for beach scenes) look sound-stage phony. Kabei (かべい) means "wallboard" or "wall decoration" in literal translation. Might be your guide when deciding whether to spend 133 minutes of your time watching this movie. WILLIAM FLANIGAN, PhD.
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