This movie completely blew me away, it's so moving, so intelligently made and so superbly acted! It's just hard to find, apart from all such superlatives, the right words to try and describe it.
Maybe you could call it a kind of late-onset coming-of-age film, in which we see a 40-something gay man struggle to come to terms with a devastating and all-consuming sense of loss and subsequent loneliness. Writer and director Andrew Haigh uses a whole palette of cinematographic means to tell the story: harsh reality, flash-backs, figments of imagination, dreams and hallucinations; and only very gradually learn what's real and what not (which is even up to the end not an easy thing). All through the movie Adam has imaginary confrontations with his deceased parents that very cautiously brings them to a mutual understanding of each others flaws and feelings. In the meantime there's a neighbor who turns up at Adam's door, and Adam lets himself (or does he really?) submerge into a passionate love-affair, to finally and for the first time fulfill his desperate need for intimacy.
The acting by Andrew Scott in the pivotal and multilayered part of Adam is absolutely superb, there were so many times that he moved me to tears! As did by the way Jamie Bell as his father, their scenes together are extremely touching. Paul Mescal as neighbor Harry and Claire Foy as the mother are equally good.
This is not an easy story and not an easy film, and the pace is very slow. So one can only hope that they who start watching it don't let themselves be put off and give it all their focus and patience, the reward is a feeling of having experienced something of great depth and importance, a feeling that will last with you for a long time.
Maybe you could call it a kind of late-onset coming-of-age film, in which we see a 40-something gay man struggle to come to terms with a devastating and all-consuming sense of loss and subsequent loneliness. Writer and director Andrew Haigh uses a whole palette of cinematographic means to tell the story: harsh reality, flash-backs, figments of imagination, dreams and hallucinations; and only very gradually learn what's real and what not (which is even up to the end not an easy thing). All through the movie Adam has imaginary confrontations with his deceased parents that very cautiously brings them to a mutual understanding of each others flaws and feelings. In the meantime there's a neighbor who turns up at Adam's door, and Adam lets himself (or does he really?) submerge into a passionate love-affair, to finally and for the first time fulfill his desperate need for intimacy.
The acting by Andrew Scott in the pivotal and multilayered part of Adam is absolutely superb, there were so many times that he moved me to tears! As did by the way Jamie Bell as his father, their scenes together are extremely touching. Paul Mescal as neighbor Harry and Claire Foy as the mother are equally good.
This is not an easy story and not an easy film, and the pace is very slow. So one can only hope that they who start watching it don't let themselves be put off and give it all their focus and patience, the reward is a feeling of having experienced something of great depth and importance, a feeling that will last with you for a long time.
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