I'm starting this in a sarcastic mood. Why? Because there are so many dismissive reviews here; and yet if you look at the QUANTITY of reviews, you can see Karan hit a raw nerve. Another case where the real message is the one people fail to communicate. I have a hunch if Karan had the time to look at this part of IMDb, he'd be quite pleased no matter what people conclude about his movie. Ingmar Bergman said any reaction from an audience is better than no reaction. He wanted people walking out FEELING something. I have to believe that Karan, since his profession is the same, probably has the same priorities. Be supportive or be caustic, but BE!! Anyway, I'll admit to being more positive than a lot of people. I'm really surprised at the number of people who can't figure anything out about the characters. I thought I got a good angle on all of them.
Dev is angry because just when his career seemed to be taking a positive turn, back luck gave him an injury that forced him to reinvent his life. And at that precise moment, he also found he had no support system. Why? Because his wife considers her career progress more important than her marriage. If she'd been willing to consider them EQUALLY important, it might have meant something to Dev, but they weren't. That's why I consider her slap later on hypocritical. She was so disconnected to the realities at home she couldn't even hear the train coming down the tracks till it smacked into her.
Maya: Here's someone whose luck ran out before her life even started. She was given a charity home, and she played at being a good little girl. But when she woke up one day to find herself espoused to her foster brother, symbolic incest, suddenly she realized that life was throwing her another googly. She couldn't complain in good conscience to her distracted foster father, Sam. But I figured from the start that she wasn't going to be comfortable in an intimate relationship with Rishi.
Rishi, on the other hand, picked up values from his father. Women were entertainment, not human beings. So, Maya's dilemma was invisible to someone like Rishi. She tolerates his pawing, but because she's not in the relationship, she seems frozen to him. His rationalization is that he is a warm, loving husband, in the traditional male mode. Trouble is that what he gives her for love is not what SHE wants, and Rishi is too immature to admit it. Women cry for Sam's attention, and Rishi wishes for the same power to turn women on. I saw very little real communication between father and son, so Rishi can't possibly know he's failing. The is a very real disconnect between Rishi's self-image and Rishi's reality. His later temper tantrum comes when the reality of his situation becomes inescapable.
Why do Dev and Maya get together. I'd say simply that both want a genuine connection and jump when an opportunity presents itself. I'm not saying its a great idea. I'm just saying Karan is keeping it real at this point. I think that was his aim in the movie, and he lost some of his audience at this point because a lot of people simply don't deal with reality when it is presented. They want to sermonize, so they arrange their rational framework to enable the sermon they want to give. Karan doesn't play ball, so Karan gets a tongue-lashing.
In the end, reality catches up with Sam. When he can no longer play at life, things come clear to him and he tells Maya to divorce Rishi and give him a chance for real happiness in life. Since Sam is the AUTHOR of these troubles, it is an act of penitence when he gives support to the person he imprisoned as she unlocks the door to her cell.
The fact is that even Rishi later realizes that the divorce was the best thing that ever happened to him. With his father and his wife gone, he gets a chance to face life as it really is and grow up. That is his final admission to Maya: "I was immature". It is amazing how many people just blew that line off. Nobody ever seems to have taken that fact and restructured their views of the plot accordingly. But it was proof to me that I was reading the characters right. Karan's message is that people unthinkingly ruin other people's lives by doing what THEY think is "the best for them". Sam could have really tried to find out how Maya was feeling, gotten the revelation Maya gave to Dev, and steered the entire group away from a lot of misery. But it took the nearness of death to focus Sam's mind.
In the end, nearly everything worked out for the best. No one was really unhappy with their new state of affairs, and I think that was what Karan wanted people to see. Preserving the status quo, even if it takes the loss of whole lives to despair, is wrong.
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