To me, an "indie" film is a movie with a budget under $10,000 and where the director's mom does all the catering. "Away We Go", with an internationally acclaimed director like Sam Mendes (American Beauty, Road to Perdition, Jarhead) and a budget of $17 million, doesn't exactly fit that description so you won't hear me calling it an "indie". What I will say is that it definitely departs from the standard Hollywood romcom formula which is a nice surprise.
The standard Hollywood romcom formula goes something like: (1) boy meets girl, (2) they deny they're in love, (3) they admit they're in love, (4) they get into a fight and fall out of love, (5) they get back together in a big climactic weepy scene and live happily ever after. Well, "Away We Go" has absolutely none of the above. That itself should get your attention if you're looking for something different.
So what's it about? It's about a man & woman in love who travel around the country looking for a place to call home. The drama & dynamics are not within their relationship, but instead they observe drama & dynamics (and quite often hysterics) from the couples they visit along the way. So essentially they are like us, the audience, impartial observers in a wacky story... except that the story happens all around them. It's a pretty novel approach to the romcom, more like a road movie than anything else, and yet it delves deeply into questions of love, marriage and relationships.
In case you didn't know, Maya Rudolph's character is pregnant throughout the film and the themes focus heavily on children: how people raise them, how people FAIL at raising them, and how people try admirably in unlucky circumstances. But you don't have to be baby crazy to connect with this film. More than anything, it makes us analyze our own upbringing and how our parents' methods affected us.
I sincerely hope none of you had it as bad as what we see in the movie. There's some pretty hilariously bad parenting going on here. And that's where the movie draws most of its comedy from. It's a very satirical film, light on punchlines but heavy on sarcasm. Most of the (bad) parents we see are caricatures of certain extremes: the negligent rich parents who are more interested in their home decorations than their children, the creepy midlife-crisis parents including the mother who is ready to have an affair with any man with a pulse, the hippy new age parents who share their bed (and evidently their nocturnal marital activities) with their children... yeah there's some hilariously creepy stuff here.
But just when you start thinking this movie is a total absurdist comedy, it hits you with some very powerful, sobering moments. In particular, in the latter half there's a very sudden dark moment when we wake up and realize that relationships and parenting sometimes come with some heavy baggage. The scene begins with one of the mothers doing a pole dancing routine at a strip club amateur night (hilarious right?) but soon becomes one of the most darkly emotional moments in any romcom. That's when I made up my mind that I really liked this film.
The scene I just mentioned featured a great song from The Velvet Underground "Oh! Sweet Nuthin" which earns it more bonus points. I've heard people rave about the soundtrack of "Away We Go" but honestly I didn't really notice anything exceptional until that scene. I later looked up the soundtrack and saw that all the songs are acoustic guitar pieces by Alexi Murdoch except 1 song by George Harrison ("What is life?"), one by The Stranglers ("Golden Brown") and of course the Velvet Underground tune. So basically if you like Alexi Murdoch you'll love the soundtrack.
I would recommend this as a good date movie for a couple that's been together for a while and pondering the future together. It doesn't have the standard start-of-a-relationship drama that's prevalent in most romcoms, but instead it's more like what happens *after* the standard romcom stuff. Similar movies about the "2nd stage" of love include Miranda July's quirky "The Future" which centers around a young couple who is adopting a shelter cat, and for the slightly older late-30something crowd there's the underrated 90s gem by Billy Crystal "Forget Paris" which is almost like a sequel to "When Harry Met Sally". All of these non-formulaic romcoms are well worth checking out.
The standard Hollywood romcom formula goes something like: (1) boy meets girl, (2) they deny they're in love, (3) they admit they're in love, (4) they get into a fight and fall out of love, (5) they get back together in a big climactic weepy scene and live happily ever after. Well, "Away We Go" has absolutely none of the above. That itself should get your attention if you're looking for something different.
So what's it about? It's about a man & woman in love who travel around the country looking for a place to call home. The drama & dynamics are not within their relationship, but instead they observe drama & dynamics (and quite often hysterics) from the couples they visit along the way. So essentially they are like us, the audience, impartial observers in a wacky story... except that the story happens all around them. It's a pretty novel approach to the romcom, more like a road movie than anything else, and yet it delves deeply into questions of love, marriage and relationships.
In case you didn't know, Maya Rudolph's character is pregnant throughout the film and the themes focus heavily on children: how people raise them, how people FAIL at raising them, and how people try admirably in unlucky circumstances. But you don't have to be baby crazy to connect with this film. More than anything, it makes us analyze our own upbringing and how our parents' methods affected us.
I sincerely hope none of you had it as bad as what we see in the movie. There's some pretty hilariously bad parenting going on here. And that's where the movie draws most of its comedy from. It's a very satirical film, light on punchlines but heavy on sarcasm. Most of the (bad) parents we see are caricatures of certain extremes: the negligent rich parents who are more interested in their home decorations than their children, the creepy midlife-crisis parents including the mother who is ready to have an affair with any man with a pulse, the hippy new age parents who share their bed (and evidently their nocturnal marital activities) with their children... yeah there's some hilariously creepy stuff here.
But just when you start thinking this movie is a total absurdist comedy, it hits you with some very powerful, sobering moments. In particular, in the latter half there's a very sudden dark moment when we wake up and realize that relationships and parenting sometimes come with some heavy baggage. The scene begins with one of the mothers doing a pole dancing routine at a strip club amateur night (hilarious right?) but soon becomes one of the most darkly emotional moments in any romcom. That's when I made up my mind that I really liked this film.
The scene I just mentioned featured a great song from The Velvet Underground "Oh! Sweet Nuthin" which earns it more bonus points. I've heard people rave about the soundtrack of "Away We Go" but honestly I didn't really notice anything exceptional until that scene. I later looked up the soundtrack and saw that all the songs are acoustic guitar pieces by Alexi Murdoch except 1 song by George Harrison ("What is life?"), one by The Stranglers ("Golden Brown") and of course the Velvet Underground tune. So basically if you like Alexi Murdoch you'll love the soundtrack.
I would recommend this as a good date movie for a couple that's been together for a while and pondering the future together. It doesn't have the standard start-of-a-relationship drama that's prevalent in most romcoms, but instead it's more like what happens *after* the standard romcom stuff. Similar movies about the "2nd stage" of love include Miranda July's quirky "The Future" which centers around a young couple who is adopting a shelter cat, and for the slightly older late-30something crowd there's the underrated 90s gem by Billy Crystal "Forget Paris" which is almost like a sequel to "When Harry Met Sally". All of these non-formulaic romcoms are well worth checking out.